Don't be that guy. Instead, concentrate on getting it right from the beginning. And that means getting all affected parties’ thoughts on the modifications. Each person may have something to offer, or he might not, but each will feel bought into the change and highly appreciative that you thought to let him in on it a priori.
What if someone does have a modification to suggest, but you’ve already progressed a good way through the whole deal? It’s your call at that point, but if the value of the suggestion would outweigh the bit of adjusting you would need to do and the additional communications you’d need to have with those you had already talked with, then you can decide to actually improve upon the whole situation. In doing so, you won’t have to “embarrass yourself” in front of the entire team. Instead, you’ll be doing exactly what you always do – getting maximal input on all major decisions.
When running the idea by folks, it is not necessary to tell each affected person the entire plan. You can restrict each person’s knowledge to facets that are appropriate. And, it’s important to stress the confidentiality of your discussion.
“Please do not discuss any aspects of this with anyone else. Many affected people have not yet been informed, and they need to have the discussion with me first. I am deadly serious. Do you understand?”Sometimes those last couple of sentences are needed to really bring the point home. If someone decides not to heed your warning, and he somehow manages to avoid involuntary termination, you’d probably never trust him again to keep a secret, and do not bring him in on reorganization discussions in the future.
So who should you talk with? You should bring into the “in crowd” at least:
- Anyone who will have a new boss
- Folks that will have their assignments modified to any reasonable degree
- People that have their work environment or location modified
- Managers or other team leaders that will have new subordinates
- Anyone on your team who has shown, from past experience, any untoward sensitivity regarding similar changes. (Some folks don’t like change at all… you don’t have to tell these people much – make them feel comfortable that something’s going to be happening.)
- Your own boss (he will almost always have suggestions, comments, or outright demands)
- Anyone else on the entire company’s management team that you would trust to give you solid feedback (especially someone in Human Resources if there might be anything controversial)
- Your significant other (a neutral third party can be another great crosscheck)